The famous scene in "When Harry Met Sally" The movie made Meg Ryan a few good millions. The translation of your sentence from Hebrew to English would be: "Unfortunately, since this is not your case, faking an orgasm won't work in your favor and will leave you stuck in a place where your partner doesn't know what you truly want or what takes you to the peak." This sentence suggests that pretense in intimate situations doesn't help in genuine communication between partners and can lead to a lack of understanding or fulfillment in the relationship.
If it's hard for you to cum and to this day you've faked it - don't lose hope! A small breaking point is an exciting opportunity to take matters into your own hands and intensify your sex life, your romantic intimacy, and your relationship overall. In most cases, the best policy is honesty: lay things out on the table and work on them honestly. The case of faking an orgasm is no different.
You are summing up your bravery and telling your partner gently. It's essential to clarify that you're not blaming them for anything; otherwise, they might experience a sort of betrayal. It may take them some time to process this revelation, but the moment you initiate this conversation with them, you've already made a significant stride toward a solution.
